When someone asks me to describe my fondest childhood memories, I typically respond with the vacations we took as a family.  Some of you share similar fond memories, while others may have horror stories as you recollect those times of family togetherness.  Yes, family travels can be terrific or they can be a bit trying.  Although the unforeseen can arise on a vacation, we still have the ability to make every vacation a great vacation.

              One of the most important ingredients for a successful trip is a good attitude.  Bottom line, it doesn’t really matter where you go, or what happens along the way, a memorable vacation is anchored in your own positive perspective. You can set the tone for the whole experience by maintaining an upbeat outlook and an encouraging spirit along the way. Before you leave the front door, remind yourself to stay positive, thankful and prayerful throughout the twists and turns.

Here a few ideas to help:

Prepare a General Itinerary. Planning your days, and especially mealtimes, can help the trip run smoothly. Purchase tickets and make dinner reservations ahead of time. Talk with your family about the plans and tell them what they can expect along the way. Invite input and ideas in the planning stage. Leave room for flexibility and free time to relax or do spur of the moment excursions.

Remain Flexible. Things change. Weather happens. Flights get canceled. This is an opportunity to teach your kids how to handle challenges with grace and resilience, instead of anger and frustration. Help your kids change their expectations and creatively look for what you can do instead of remaining annoyed about what you can’t do.

Provide a Bag Full of Fun. Put together a simple goodie bag or small backpack for each child with age appropriate activities, snacks, games or toys. Make sure it is carry-able for your kids, so that it can go with them in the car or on the plane. The element of surprise helps to build the anticipation, so consider giving the bag to each child as you embark on your journey.

Have a Daily Family Devotional. Family trips offer a time of connectedness when you can share your hearts and pass on your spiritual values. Read a short devotional or a Psalm or passage of scripture each day as a family – talk about it and pray for each other’s needs.

 Allow this time of togetherness to draw you closer as a family and create wonderful family memories. Prayerfully plan your trip and ask God to allow His grace-filled love to flow through each one of you as you spend this time together. And remember Paul’s encouragement in Romans 12, “As much as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”  

For more fun tips, check out The Power of a Positive Mom