No matter your past, you can make positive changes for the future. I often encourage young moms and dads with these words in our Engage Parenting classes. It’s important to be reminded that we don’t have to be stuck in our past or our mistakes. And although the way we were raised has an impact on us, it does not define us.

We can decide to take positive steps in a new direction. I’m not saying it’s easy, but it is possible to forge new paths. The apostle Paul said, “Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”

What has God equipped you to do? Press on toward that goal. Seek His help and guidance each day as you make wise and healthy decisions for the future. Our past can strengthen us and teach us, but it doesn’t own us. Let’s take intentional steps each day to make a positive impact in this world as we bless and strengthen others.

3 Simple Steps to Positive Change

Identify old, unhealthy, unproductive patterns, attitudes, or mindsets in your life.

Intentionally replace negative thought patterns with positive phrases, words, scriptures, or quotes.

Implement new actions and habits. Surround yourself with people who will encourage you in a positive and productive direction. Pray daily for God’s help, strength, and guidance.