January 2024 – Positive Woman Connection

This beautiful and meaningful blog was written by my daughter Grace Ladd McDonald. I pray your heart is strengthened through these words.

What a grace, what an absolute divine mercy it is to experience the humility of suffering, the state of dire need when we are no longer sufficient by our merits or efforts to hold our own. Nothing, no nothing can more propel us towards the most real and satisfying beauty we could ever know. But what is this beauty and why must agony and such profound grief serve as the portal to it?

When you see the light of Jesus, the one who does not look away from those that even the most compassionate among us forsake, it is He alone which lifts us. The hand He offers is not one of material prosperity but rather eternal joy. We cannot comprehend this wildness so the tendency to move on is tempting.

But stop. The still quiet One– amidst all the clutter and chaos of our roughest waves–calms, stills and saves us from the competing half-loves that beg our full commitment. We are made to recognize glory, but not wise enough to discern it from its mockers.

Wealth, power, sex are impostures of pleasure in the face of divine suffering. However, the desolation of sorrow is pure and utter waste without arriving at The End it so aims to reach. I beg you in the face of despair to not look away. This Jesus that gives so generously of a spirit so sensual that our eyes are too dim to see, our ears too weak to hear completely will consume you with His love.

Open your hands to Him. I beg you not to look away. Receive the pain and breathe through it with the breath God has given you to live. It hurts. It hurts like the bitterest depths of hell. Look up. Look up now, the one who will not leave you has come so that even death has not the final word.

Your final word is Love. That love is Jesus Christ. And this Christ is the Holy one God. No beauty will surpass Him, no obstacle prevent you from coming. So come, come in your grossest of sins, in your brokenness, in your deep anguish and shame. Love is real. If it is not, neither are you and neither is this pain. But your pain is real. It is so real.

Receive Love, this very indubitable, hyper-existent love. Look up and let Him fill you.

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Have you noticed that there’s just a little emotional lull after the excitement of the Holidays? Maybe it’s the thought of putting away all those decorations or perhaps it’s the reality of jumping back into the regular routine of life. Whether or not you experience a little January blues, there are certain steps we can take to begin the new year with a positive perspective.

Pray – Starting each day, devoting your work, your family, your activities, and your concerns to God can create a sense of both peace and strength. Praying reminds us that we are not alone. We have a Heavenly Father who sees us, loves us, and cares for us. He comforts us through the storms of life and calms our hearts amid confusion. He guides us in making wise decisions. Praying, even if it’s just a few minutes a day, helps us maintain an eternal focus and reminds us of His presence.

Plan – Creating a plan for the year directs us and keeps us focused. It allows us to feel purposeful as we start our year. Certainly, we cannot plan out every little detail, and we know that all too often plans will change. But plans give us a sense of direction and allow us to think about where we are headed. Start your planning by looking back at the past year – what worked, what didn’t work and what can you do differently? Then consider what you want to accomplish in the coming year mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally, socially, and work-wise. Revisit these goals at the first of each month to help you stay on target.

Push Forward – Positive change doesn’t just randomly happen, we must take decisive steps to move in a new direction. If you want to spend more time with certain people, then you have to be deliberate about reaching out to them. If you are feeling lonely, push forward and find a place to volunteer and serve. Volunteering often opens new doors to meeting people and helps you feel more purposeful in life. If you want to be better about finances, put together a budget and set a regular time when you will review your financial statements and budget. Pushing forward means getting out of our comfort zone and choosing to take actionable steps.

Pray, plan, and push forward – three simple concepts that can help us have a positive perspective for the new year. Stay hopeful and stay connected to both God and others. And remember, “There’s more in store in 2024!”

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